How Dating & Journaling Can Help You Discover Your Passion šā¤ļø
- Nicole Book Club

- Oct 14
- 1 min read

āļø I journal every day
Itās a habit that helps meĀ
- reflect
- gain clarity
- understand what truly energises me and what doesnāt.
š Some days I write about feeling hyped when a candidate or client appreciates my work.Ā
Other days, I note how excited I feel when someone compliments my fitness.Ā
š And sometimes I complain about being stuck in traffic or how some taxi drivers don't know how to drive the short cut because yes, Iām impatient.
These small reflections reveal patterns.Ā
They help me answer questions like:
- What made me feel alive today?
- What moments made me tune out or feel drained?
Hereās what Iāve learned:Ā
- You donāt discover your passion by thinking about it
- You discover it by doing
- Experience first
- Journal second
- Reflect deeply
Thatās how you uncover what truly lights you up.
š© Itās a lot like dating.Ā
You donāt find the right person by writing a long checklist and waiting.Ā
You go out, meet people, and learn through interaction.Ā
Only then do you know what feels right.
So if youāre searching for your mission or passion, start with action.Ā
Then write about it.Ā
šŗļø Your journal becomes a mirror and a map.
Whatās something you did recently that made you feel truly alive?
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